RULING YOUR LIFE.............FAMILY AND YOU

its practically offensive and so intruding when people keep trying to rule your life even when they know you are old enough to make your choice, make decision that concerns your life, and make mistakes that will teach you life lessons.
but this is not as annoying and infuriating as family trying to control your life and do all things listed above.
but above all, they are family, and family is love, is unity, is friendship, and its blood..............
never mess with family..........................they might be as annoying as hell.............................. but they always mean well. and no matter how annoying they are, you will always love them.

BEWARE OF BAD FRIENDS

BEWARE OF BAD FRIENDS

They are green snakes under green grass

They have sweet tongues

Their deeds are evil

They will always pretend to love you

They will call you all sorts of sweet names even honey and sometimes sweetheart

They would call you the sugar in their tea

But when they get you, they would spoil you and forsake you,

Do not mind them and beware of them cus they are as sharp as blade,

They cannot give you good advises,

They would force you to do evil with them

They will frustrate your future

They will abandon you in time  of trouble and need,

They will make jest of you in your time of need and pain

Their lips are filled with lies

They have deceitful tongues

They are wolves in sheep clothings

To help yourself, run away from them

 Let your answer to them sound like this:

“if you notice any change in my attitude, its not that I have ceased to be nice, but I have ceased to be foolish, cus it only takes time for me to realise my mistakes and to learn from them, even as I have also learnt from my foolishness,.i have ceased to have time for those kind of friends who have the disease of hypocrisy’’.

YOU NEVER FORGET DARLINGS.THIS ONE IS FOR YOU

This write up is for someone who has a special place in my heart and I there by urge you guys to always express things to that special some one you love and care about in ways that allows you to, and this is how mine goes,

I love you cus I was born to love you,

You are an amazing person that’s why you are still remembered even after ten years,

It’s a great memory for me because no matter how much I try ,I cant forget you cus you’ve already taken up residence in one part of my mind, heart, and memory,

You were an amazing father, an amazing achiever, and even as a single parent, you were always there for me,

I remembered one day as we were taking a walk and someone asked between my dad and my mom who I loved the most and I stared you in eyes and said “I wouldn’t trade my dad for anything in the world but it doesn’t mean I don’t love them both”

You were a darling, you made my childhood a one worth remembering,

You were a caring and loving father but also a strict one WHO NEVER LETS ANY MISTAKE GO UNPUNISHED, or uncautioned

I will not let you down dad, and I will make it a mission to make you proud in everything I do,

I JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOUR ARE THE BEST AND YOUR FRESHEST  MEMORY AND GOD’S GRACE HAS KEPT ME GOING……………….

YOU NEVER FORGET DARLINGS………………..

BOOKS TO INSPIRE YOU

its been a weird day all together even though it hasn't really ended  ,the fact is ,  its not really weird per say but i kinda have a tendency of calling thing weird even  when they are  not, so  let me get down to the bases of today's write up.
I READ  BOOKS COS I LOVE READING  BUT  I REALIZED ALONG THE LINE OF READING  THAT I DONT JUST  READ FOR FUN ALONE ANY MORE,
I READ COS IT INSPIRES  ME AND KEEPS MY  FANTASIES ALIVE AND GIVES ME A HOPE EVEN IF ITS A FALSE ONE   .            
  NOW DOWN TO THE AUTHORS I LOVE;
I love JACKIE COLLINS, i mean literarilyand not in a creepy manner.  her  b ooksdriv es me crazy,  an di know some of you consider it boring but its  educating  and  realistic.
                 she always manag es to touch t he heart , min dand soul of  her readers ,  she is a great writer,  the best o fher books i love is the  SANTANGELO'S SERIES AND LOVERS ANDPLAYERS,  AND ALSO MARRIED  LOVER'S.
another amazin g writer i love   is SYDNEY SHELDON, he writes medical drama like no other, and i am so sure you guys will love him.
other writers i love that i would encourage you guys to check out are:
NORA ROBERTS 
MIRANDA LEE
PENNY JORDAN
READ AND BE INSPIRED..........................
CHAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

QUESTIONS THAT NEED ANSWERS

there are lots of questions that need answers and it would really help all of us if we could get the answers so i went around and asked people what question that they would love to ask people, or what questions they cant answer and would love to know, so here are the questions:
does love exist?

what is the ingredients for a perfect relationship?

how do you know Mr/Miss right?

how do you know when a partner is cheating?

how do you  know if you re in love?

is 'out of sight' 'out of mind?

is it true that distance relationship dont last?

when do you know its time to get out of a relationship?
 
can love withstand all pain?

can a man who love you hit you?

can you forgive lies in a relationship?

does sex before love exist?
WE WOULD DEFINITELY LOVE TO HAVE YOUR ANSWERS

"BEAUTIFUL AND SEXY" OR "HOMELY AND ORDINARY"HOW WOULD YOU WANT YOUR PARTNER TO SEE YOU?

i couldn't think of anything to say as i listened to a man to day on my way out, the audacity some men have is utterly baffling, the way they think, talk and make decision can be some times annoying.
okay, this is what happened, someone brought up the topic about how you would want your wife to look, beautiful and sexy or homely and ordinary, some said beautiful and sexy cos it would make them proud while some said homely and ordinary, then all of a sudden from the back this man raised his voice and said" na una dey blow grammar, my wife will barb her hair like me"
every one was surprised at the outburst, as if sensing something interesting, a guy sitting near him asked " oga abeg explain", so the man explained that his wife would barb her hair just like him and they were certain outfits she wouldn't wear. he also said that she would not go out without him and if she ever lies to him or talk to any other man, he would beat her mercilessly .
i would like to know your opinion, so i implore you guys to share this blog/link to get other opinions too.
CHAO!!!!!!!!

TO LOVE AND TO HOLD

                                                                                                                                                   

TO LOVE AND TO HOLD

‘to love and to hold’, this are one of the vows a couple standing at                                         the altar pledges to one another and sometimes ,they break those vows.

 Every vow said at the altar on that day, is TO BE MEANT FOREVER,  so why do they break it? I would not pretend to know but for once I would like to know, but if there is one thing that I know for certain,  it is the fact that they just  don’t wake up one morning and decide to break their vows.

So, since I ve no experience, I will only give you the advise given by people who has had tons of experience from it,

1.    never go up the altar with some one you feel nothing for,

2.    never say those words if you don’t mean them

3.    never say those vows if you cant stand by them

4.    it’s a forever business,  so don’t be in a hurry,  take your time.

5.    its ‘to love and to hold’ and not ‘to tolerate and to hold’   if you don’t love or like,  you had better stay clear of those vows

6.    Listen to your heart before going into the forever business.

7.      never love alone ,LOVE AND HOLD