BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Do yourself some good and believ in yourself. Believe in God first, then yourself and also your dreams. Believe your dreams would come true, and believe you can make it. Believe you can build your future to be great, believe you would make it. Believe!!!!!!!!!!!
take your aim higher and also believe you were born with a purpose for a purpose. Believe you were born to be great and will also be the best.
The best you can do is to concentrate, cus concentrattion fueled with hard work and determination can take you higher than you expect.
Laziness brings people down, cus if you are not hardworking , you wont have concentration and you will not aim high, neither will you have absolute belief in yourself.
Always focus and always try to be yourself, you can make it if you believe.
B  be\
E  eager to/
L   live/
I    in
E   encouragement through/
V   velvent/
E   endeavours

LONELINESS,SADNESS AND HURT

To be frank, nothing hurts more than loneliness, sadness is something we practricalise, i mean its something we have to do with as long as it comes.....it goes with everything that has to do with it, but loneliness doesnt go without a mark.It doesnt go easily, it keeps recalling to the memory, body and soul.It physically shows, thats why it is easily recognized by others, it is always speechless,full of grieve , murmuring and traumatizing.
Loneliness is a whole world on its own. Why said so is because you think o0es and negative thoughts, like suicide or hurting yourself drastically, loneliness is a distractor, traitor and an evil spirit, cos when its gone, you will realise what you have done, its a place where one is never meant to be at all cause nothing comes best rather you cry even when you need no cry, you sick, even when you need no sickness, its never a scene to be in.
I bebelieve sadness has something good to write about than loneliness cos when you are sad, you will think , i mean you will concentrate cos everyone around you will stay away from you and when you are back from it, you will be more courageous , but when you are lonely, people will come close to you to ask you questions that will complicate it cos they cant really understand it because it is sometimes strange whenever you emerge but sadness is not so strange so in other words, loneliness is also a source of sadness...........................................

RULING YOUR LIFE.............FAMILY AND YOU

its practically offensive and so intruding when people keep trying to rule your life even when they know you are old enough to make your choice, make decision that concerns your life, and make mistakes that will teach you life lessons.
but this is not as annoying and infuriating as family trying to control your life and do all things listed above.
but above all, they are family, and family is love, is unity, is friendship, and its blood..............
never mess with family..........................they might be as annoying as hell.............................. but they always mean well. and no matter how annoying they are, you will always love them.

BEWARE OF BAD FRIENDS

BEWARE OF BAD FRIENDS

They are green snakes under green grass

They have sweet tongues

Their deeds are evil

They will always pretend to love you

They will call you all sorts of sweet names even honey and sometimes sweetheart

They would call you the sugar in their tea

But when they get you, they would spoil you and forsake you,

Do not mind them and beware of them cus they are as sharp as blade,

They cannot give you good advises,

They would force you to do evil with them

They will frustrate your future

They will abandon you in time  of trouble and need,

They will make jest of you in your time of need and pain

Their lips are filled with lies

They have deceitful tongues

They are wolves in sheep clothings

To help yourself, run away from them

 Let your answer to them sound like this:

“if you notice any change in my attitude, its not that I have ceased to be nice, but I have ceased to be foolish, cus it only takes time for me to realise my mistakes and to learn from them, even as I have also learnt from my foolishness,.i have ceased to have time for those kind of friends who have the disease of hypocrisy’’.

YOU NEVER FORGET DARLINGS.THIS ONE IS FOR YOU

This write up is for someone who has a special place in my heart and I there by urge you guys to always express things to that special some one you love and care about in ways that allows you to, and this is how mine goes,

I love you cus I was born to love you,

You are an amazing person that’s why you are still remembered even after ten years,

It’s a great memory for me because no matter how much I try ,I cant forget you cus you’ve already taken up residence in one part of my mind, heart, and memory,

You were an amazing father, an amazing achiever, and even as a single parent, you were always there for me,

I remembered one day as we were taking a walk and someone asked between my dad and my mom who I loved the most and I stared you in eyes and said “I wouldn’t trade my dad for anything in the world but it doesn’t mean I don’t love them both”

You were a darling, you made my childhood a one worth remembering,

You were a caring and loving father but also a strict one WHO NEVER LETS ANY MISTAKE GO UNPUNISHED, or uncautioned

I will not let you down dad, and I will make it a mission to make you proud in everything I do,

I JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOUR ARE THE BEST AND YOUR FRESHEST  MEMORY AND GOD’S GRACE HAS KEPT ME GOING……………….

YOU NEVER FORGET DARLINGS………………..

BOOKS TO INSPIRE YOU

its been a weird day all together even though it hasn't really ended  ,the fact is ,  its not really weird per say but i kinda have a tendency of calling thing weird even  when they are  not, so  let me get down to the bases of today's write up.
I READ  BOOKS COS I LOVE READING  BUT  I REALIZED ALONG THE LINE OF READING  THAT I DONT JUST  READ FOR FUN ALONE ANY MORE,
I READ COS IT INSPIRES  ME AND KEEPS MY  FANTASIES ALIVE AND GIVES ME A HOPE EVEN IF ITS A FALSE ONE   .            
  NOW DOWN TO THE AUTHORS I LOVE;
I love JACKIE COLLINS, i mean literarilyand not in a creepy manner.  her  b ooksdriv es me crazy,  an di know some of you consider it boring but its  educating  and  realistic.
                 she always manag es to touch t he heart , min dand soul of  her readers ,  she is a great writer,  the best o fher books i love is the  SANTANGELO'S SERIES AND LOVERS ANDPLAYERS,  AND ALSO MARRIED  LOVER'S.
another amazin g writer i love   is SYDNEY SHELDON, he writes medical drama like no other, and i am so sure you guys will love him.
other writers i love that i would encourage you guys to check out are:
NORA ROBERTS 
MIRANDA LEE
PENNY JORDAN
READ AND BE INSPIRED..........................
CHAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

QUESTIONS THAT NEED ANSWERS

there are lots of questions that need answers and it would really help all of us if we could get the answers so i went around and asked people what question that they would love to ask people, or what questions they cant answer and would love to know, so here are the questions:
does love exist?

what is the ingredients for a perfect relationship?

how do you know Mr/Miss right?

how do you know when a partner is cheating?

how do you  know if you re in love?

is 'out of sight' 'out of mind?

is it true that distance relationship dont last?

when do you know its time to get out of a relationship?
 
can love withstand all pain?

can a man who love you hit you?

can you forgive lies in a relationship?

does sex before love exist?
WE WOULD DEFINITELY LOVE TO HAVE YOUR ANSWERS